Simi asked, and I also struggled for, a concrete example of invisibility as a choice of power. I really like the way Misty put it, instead of fighting for or being denied a seat at the table, not wanting to be a part of the table at all. I think this metaphor captures how someone or some performance would not want to be part of the system of representation while others are pushing for greater visibility. It also illustrates the bind. If you don’t sit at the table, where do you sit? What if everybody who controls certain resources is at that table? Who decided we would sit at the table in the first place? One example that has come to mind of someone who chooses not to be visible, in the mode of not being represented, is Kate Bornstein . She is a writer, performance artist, and activist who identifies as neither man nor woman. In one section of her book, HelloCruel World , she frames the binaries as a form of bullying. She sees the either/or choices of man or woman, black or whit...